Do you have a fear of intimacy? Do you push people away when they get too close to you emotionally? It can be scary to be intimate and emotionally vulnerable to someone. Having a fear of intimacy is perfectly understandable, especially if you have a history of failed relationships and emotionally distant or absent parents.
Are you looking for relationship advice on how to overcome the fear of intimacy? Before we get to the "how", we need to identify the signs first and understand the psychology behind the fear. If this video described you or someone you know, we've also made a video on the four attachment styles of love to help you understand why you or someone may fear intimacy: https://youtu.be/23ePqRkOKtg
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
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