Why is seeking happiness flawed? | Decode Your 20s 042
Published at : 26 Nov 2020
Have you ever wondered why we are taught to seek happiness?
From Coca-Cola's slogan "Open happiness" to Sephoras' ad campaign "Wear happiness on your face", we are bombarded with the idea that happiness can be bought.
News alert: happiness cannot be bought.
True happiness comes from meaning. What is the meaning? A meaningful thing is usually achieved through sacrifice. How to obtain meaning? By taking responsibility and making sacrifices.
Meaning gives long-term happiness (global optima in machine learning terms). To find true happiness, seek meaning.
00:00 - Introduction
01:28 - Why is seeking happiness wrong?
02:24 - What to seek instead of happiness?
03:41 - Why should you seek meaning?
04:57 - How sacrifice comes into place?
07:01 - Personal example with winning gold medals in Olympiads
09:09 - Personal example with boring assignment
10:33 - Personal example with from a family holiday
11:39 - Reiteration why sacrifice is needed